As a rule, January is one month in the year who made the most promises for change and new beginning. Stop smoking, start to train harder, read more books. Often, however, the change we need, in our intimate relationship. The fact that it is sometimes difficult to grasp. How to understand and decide that we need to change just in the aspect of love, reveal psychologists.
You may be with someone for years, but have a doubt that there is actually a man for you. At the same time pressing your biological clock and the uncertainty whether they will be able to find a better half, or a man with a capital "M". Perhaps the children have left the nest and do not know what is already associated with your partner? Or have an affair and feelings to the man you have cooled?Whatever the scenario stacker, a crumbling relationship or the termination of certain relationships is difficult and time consuming solution. Tearing emotions inside can lead to unpleasant physiological symptoms such as headache, fatigue, insomnia, anxiety. Whether to move or try to fix the errors? That is the question. Here's what experts advise:
Start to be yourself and not the man who all expect to beOften do not say things you really think. Agree with your partner, although not share his opinion. Concealment of real feelings and thoughts have a detrimental effect on self-esteem and sense of happiness. If you want to improve your relationship with your partner, start saying what you really feel and think. You can not want someone to make when you actually do not know enough themselves. On the other hand, if sincerity stretched your relationship, you might just have to go.What others say it is irrelevantWhen it comes to parting thoughts like, "Well now, what do you say ... relatives, acquaintances, friends" are required. You have two options - one is to completely ignore them because you firmly convinced of his decision. Another is to think about what lies behind the view of others, but not criminal standpoint, but more philosophical - they may see errors or options that are not paying attention. Up to this point. That they may be salvation zone for your relationship.
Not in a trap as you think
Try to think positively. Ultimately, the only essential thing is death. People found the love of his life and 72. The question is to think positively, to know yourself and trustyour feelings. You can always go somewhere to change its name and lead a brand new life.
You only have six months to live, what would you do?
We accept youth, life, things that happen to us for granted. Forget or prefer to beignorant of the fact that every day is not getting any younger. So what would you do ifyou only have six months to live?
Faced with this dilemma will definitely rethink your priorities in life, you will appreciate what is important for you and what has no value. If the picture that depictsthe last six months of your life, your spouse is present, you have each other.
Life is too short to be unhappy. So start your adventure and now its change. Behonest with yourself - to your husband is correct, or just for now?
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